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I was obese for several years. There were two phases to my weight control journey. Though it is a single person anecdote, I wonder if it is replicable. Two different people gave me advice 1 and advice 2 and both tell me that people who followed their advise lost weight and kept it off for several years.

Advice 1 (from medical doctor - cardiologist) : Stop trying to pick WHAT I eat. Eat whatever I craved but HALF of what I used to. I clarified that I craved oily fatty foods. Literally my favourite dish at the time was pork belly claypot rice (this is not a rare dish here). High fat high calorie food. He replied "Great. Eat that as often as you want. But share the portion with a friend or pack half home for your next meal.". It was tough at first but I got used to the smaller portions and lost a lot of weight. Then the weight loss plateaued. I was still considered obese (by medical charts).

Advice 2 (from friend who was obese, diabetic and had cardiovascular problems but managed to turn lean fit and no more need for chronic medication of any kind): Intermittent fast. STOP calorie intake from 8PM to noon the next day. NOTHING ELSE. The first two weeks of this were horrible. Not eating breakfast made me feel weak, brain fog and miserable. Then it started getting better. Then I didn't even need my first meal at noon... even 3,4 or 5PM was fine. Then I noticed my food cravings were disappearing. I still love good food and will enjoy food but I seldom CRAVED food. I also noticed that I was more conscious of how I felt after eating and eating too much actually made me feel worse so I naturally developed a desire to eat the right amount.

I wonder if "dysregulation is for life once it starts" is true. I am certain I WAS badly dysregulated but I feel kind of "regulated" now. Would really appreciate your thoughts Walter.

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Ryan Oreily's avatar

If I may Walter, respectfully.

You should go through Andrew Huberman’s work. I guess, his podcast, cuz he talks about many studies that are very much in line with your argument. I don’t think anyone that he mentioned has put it as straight forward as you are, but he very much focuses on the brain aspect of obesity/diet. As a layman, his podcast is often mind blowing, but also has that “click” factor, where it immediately makes sense, kind of like this hypothesis. Anyone who struggled with any substance misuse, be it food or heroin, can feel in their bones that you’re on to something.

Again, respectfully.

Much love, as always.

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